David,
I am so very sorry for your loss, I am glad you are trying to celebrate his life at what is most certainly a difficult time. I pray that you, your family and everyone who knew and loved him are given peace and comfort through this. It's been 4 months today since my mom died, so I know how bad this can hurt, If you need to talk let me know.
Chris
Had a Four Kicks for Thursday
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