My girlfriend is a cigarette smoker and sometimes we have some moments of stressful tension- admittedly usually by me. I've found that I often times ask for her lighter, say if I light my cigar at home and we're headed somewhere and I need a touch up. I rarely ever carry a lighter on me. We go to didn't events and everyone asks me first for a lighter because they know I like smoking cigars I assume, I point to her as she always carries one

Also more to the "funnier" point, one thing I don't have in common with a cigarette smoker is-- I've never lit the wrong end of a cigar while distracted or after a few toddies.