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jrfoxx
09-09-2021, 12:21 PM
To hold onto Cigars you had arraged a trade with, but the other person hasn't been on the forum since Aug 18th and I don't have his address and haven't received his half of the trade?
Really don't want to trade them out from under him, but it seems like there's a reasonable limit to wait for contact.
Thoughts?
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KRam311
09-09-2021, 12:26 PM
Hopefully 6 inches!
Id say ur good, its been long enough. As long as you’ve tried reaching out id say just move on and let them know that you did
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jrfoxx
09-09-2021, 12:46 PM
Hopefully 6 inches!
Id say ur good, its been long enough. As long as you’ve tried reaching out id say just move on and let them know that you did
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkYeah, I messaged him as soon as I was ready to box it up and ship it on the 18th and asked for his address.
Also sent a couple follow-up messages and no reply and profile shows last activity was on the 18th
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Tombstone
09-09-2021, 03:37 PM
Several weeks is long enough. I agree with@Kram311. Is it anything good? I would hate to see you suffer with some dog rockets.
jrfoxx
09-09-2021, 03:57 PM
Several weeks is long enough. I agree with@Kram311. Is it anything good? I would hate to see you suffer with some dog rockets.They are considered pretty good by most people, just aren't for me. Nothing overly special though.
My hesitation is that he has proven to be a generous, stand up guy who has been a member since 2004, and he hasn't been on the forum since the 18th, so it's not like he is just ignoring my messages
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Brimy
09-09-2021, 04:07 PM
I agree with Matt & Ryan, you've attempted to make contact and waited long enough. However, since he's been absent from the forum altogether and apparently not dodging you, give it a few days.
Hopefully not, but something may be wrong which is keeping him from making contact.
jrfoxx
09-09-2021, 05:31 PM
I agree with Matt & Ryan, you've attempted to make contact and waited long enough. However, since he's been absent from the forum altogether and apparently not dodging you, give it a few days.
Hopefully not, but something may be wrong which is keeping him from making contact.That's why I'm hesitant to call it quits. Could be a medical or family problem
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chain_gang
09-09-2021, 06:55 PM
jrfoxx
If it's CentralTimeSmoke you're referring to - it's a crap shoot. He said he was leaving for good, but I'm hoping he'll be back.
May be able to get his address for you if you'd like. He seems the kinda guy that would send something back or return your trade.
jrfoxx
09-09-2021, 07:47 PM
jrfoxx
If it's CentralTimeSmoke you're referring to - it's a crap shoot. He said he was leaving for good, but I'm hoping he'll be back.
May be able to get his address for you if you'd like. He seems the kinda guy that would send something back or return your trade.No, its someone on the Cigar Family forums that I have seen disappear for a week or 2 at most before, but its been 3 weeks now since he has logged in.
Have also received a bomb from him a while ago and seems like a good, stand up guy and long standing member, thus why I have waited for this long.
If it were some random member I would have called it quits by now
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